“There are always flowers for those who want to see them.” — Henri Matisse. Once bitten… twice shy. After a series of global and local events that have shaken our social, economic and political scaffolding, it’s easy to see only the weeds, thorns and brambles around us. But, as the iconic French visual artist, known for his use of colour and his fluid and original draughtsmanship, reminds us that there are always flowers for those who […]
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Our emotions tell OUR truth, not THE truth
Did you know that listening to classical music has been proven to lower blood pressure, make us more emotionally available, help us sleep better and relieve anxiety? Ironically, our emotions around money can achieve the exact opposite! Firstly, if money brings up a lot of emotions for you, you’re not alone. Financial expert Ramit Sethi (on a blog for The Harvard Business Review) reminds his readers that our relationship with money is just as personal and […]
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Political influence and the markets
Religion, politics and money are all connected – and probably always have been! This is because they’re all currency for influence, power and status. These three topics can become highly volatile when we’re in social settings as they’re super subjective. The markets, politics and religion all give us a sense of belonging, purpose and stories to share. Since they offer so much meaning, we’ll likely talk about them at any chance. Depending on the crowd we’re […]
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Ask for help
“What I want in my life is compassion, a flow between myself and others based on a mutual giving from the heart.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg You’re not weak or lazy – everyone needs support. We thrive when we work together, each being able to share our strengths whilst others fill in the gaps with their strengths. We recently heard a story of a mom who was collecting her daughter from school, and the ensuing conversation […]
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Can the Enneagram help you with your money habits?
If you’re not familiar, the Enneagram is a personality typing tool that focuses on why we do what we do. It is a model of nine interconnected personality types – from the Ancient Greek word “ennea” for nine. A quick Google search will tell you what you need to know and guide you to free tests if you’d like to dig a little deeper. Over the last few decades, the Enneagram has grown in popularity, proving […]
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Holiday-proof your financial plan
Holidays should be a time of restoration and relaxation. But for savvy investors, who are seldom able to switch off or turn down the volume on their analytical brain activity, it can be a time of stress and panic. Whether you’re entering your annual time of leave or it’s a sneaky mid-year break, if you’re understandably nervous about your financial plan, fear not. While no portfolio is fireproof to completely uncontrollable events like black swans and […]
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Can you control it?
We permanently activate our fight-flight-freeze-appease response when constantly performing at our peak. This acute stress response activates our sympathetic nervous system and keeps us unhealthy or from experiencing deeper joy and fulfilment in life. Blogs and TED talks abound on how we’re living in an age where our stress level is way above a healthy normal, and we need to find ways to reduce our stress to enjoy more of life. Stress can be relieved in […]
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Where do you see yourself?
Mark Manson, New York Times bestselling author, believes that life tends to unfold in stages and that problems arise when we get stuck on one stage. He speaks about four stages of development: mimicry, self-discovery, dedication and legacy. Some of us move between these stages effortlessly, while others may take a little longer. Manson says these stages are a natural progression, but we can only go on to the next stage once we are ready. Mimicry […]
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When the conversation goes south…
Despite our best-laid plans and most honourable intentions, conversations about money can go south quickly! There’s never going to be a perfect time to talk about money dreads or financial dreams, but preparing our partner or family for the chat, and finding a space where we won’t be interrupted is always helpful. It’s also helpful to think about what you want to say, but you can never know exactly how others will feel about it. In […]
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Helping your parents with their financial independence
In the previous blog, we looked at how we can help our children with their retirement, or financial independence, as many in our profession are starting to frame it. But the reality is, as the sandwich generation, we can’t only be thinking about our own and our kids’ financial futures; we also need to be thinking about our parents’ financial futures. Living at a time when fewer and fewer people can afford to live without working […]
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